CAUTIOUS DEFINITION:given to prudent forethought before acting CATEGORIES:achievement, interactive SIMILAR ATTRIBUTES:careful, heedful POSSIBLE CAUSES: Living in a dangerous environment Witnessing loved ones who suffered calamities as a result of risky behavior Being hurt in the past Being the victim of abuse or crime Living with fears, phobias, or social anxiety Fragile health Having overly protective parents Believing in superstition and bad luck ASSOCIATED BEHAVIORS: Asking questions Investigating and researching before making decisions Avoiding risky situations or places Entering relationships slowly Going over the details Being slow to trust Having a closed body posture Sharing one’s thoughts and opinions in a round-about way, rather than directly Having a backup plan Pickiness Repeating instructions several times to ensure they will be followed Taking the time to study new places Doing one’s research beforehand Valuing privacy Being confident in one’s decisions, knowing that ample thought was put into them Being pessimistic or, at best, cautiously optimistic Showing respect for boundaries and rules Wariness; being watchful for danger Locking doors; not sleeping with windows open Committing with reluctance Learning from the past and applying those lessons Frequently changing passwords to protect oneself online Placing cherished objects in a safe place Hiding things from view to remove temptation (not leaving a tablet on the car seat, etc.) Comparing different choices and scenarios Giving trust to those who earn it Speaking slowly; choosing one’s words with purpose Offering to clarify something one has said to ensure understanding Needing time to reflect on one’s options Requesting a delay if one needs time to think things through Being active and involved in one’s finances and investments Double-checking everything Not liking surprises Evaluating a past experience to determine if one would do the same thing again Difficulty letting others make the decisions ASSOCIATED THOUGHTS: She didn’t sound confident with those directions. I’ll check my GPS, to make sure. Oops. Sarah left her purse sitting in plain view. I’ll hold onto it until she gets back. I can’t believe they asked for my credit card number over the phone. Do they think I’m stupid? I’ll go out with him if he agrees to meet at the restaurant instead of picking me up at home. ASSOCIATED EMOTIONS:anxiety, confidence, suspicion, wariness, worry POSITIVE ASPECTS:Cautious people are observant, connected to their environment, and aware of shifting dynamics. When emotions run high, these characters can restore balance and apply reasoning techniques that enable others to make decisions with a clear head. They look before they leap, think before they act, and generally are the ones still alive at the end of a horror movie. NEGATIVE ASPECTS:Cautious characters can sometimes be seen as mood-killers when others want to be spontaneous. Worried about possible risks, these characters rely on data and fact; they need to know the variables and potential outcomes before acting. They also see it as their duty to point out risks to teammates, which isn’t always taken well by others. Cautious characters may have a hard time relaxing in an environment outside their comfort zone and may be averse to trying new things. If too many factors are unknown, they are often unable to commit. EXAMPLE FROM FILM:Ellen Ripley (Alien) embodies caution. When her shipmates try to bring aboard an alien life form, she takes her time, gathering information before eventually deciding to deny them access. Her decision is overridden and she finds herself trapped aboard the ship with an acid-bleeding alien. In the aftermath, it’s her cautious nature that allows her to survive while her crewmates perish. Brave, intelligent, and intuitive, Ripley is able to control her fear and take care each step of the way, considering the dangers and risks before taking action.Other Examples from Film and Literature:Columbus (Zombieland), Jean Valjean (Les Misérables), Aragorn(The Lord of the Rings) TRAITS IN SUPPORTING CHARACTERS THAT MAY CAUSE CONFLICT:compulsive, decisive, efficient, flaky, irresponsible, pushy, reckless, violent CHALLENGING SCENARIOS FOR THE CAUTIOUS CHARACTER: PLOTLINE: Inebriation PLOTLINE: Being in a situation with a high-stake “ticking clock” element PLOTLINE: Having a goal that forces one to be reckless to succeed or win PLOTLINE: Being in a situation where a risk needs to be taken PLOTLINE: Facing a dangerous scenario where there isn’t time to plan